{"id":160,"date":"2024-04-10T03:27:33","date_gmt":"2024-04-10T03:27:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/?p=160"},"modified":"2024-11-16T18:26:54","modified_gmt":"2024-11-16T18:26:54","slug":"who-determines-your-worth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/uncategorized\/who-determines-your-worth\/","title":{"rendered":"Who determines your worth?"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221;]\n\t\t\t[et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221;]\n\t\t\t\t[et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221;]\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">PSA:<br>Applicable to men and women\u2026&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have to prove your worth to the opposite sex, they are NOT from God. Don\u2019t walk, RUN AWAY!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I never understood the statement, <strong>\u201cPeople only hurt you as much as you allow them.\u201d<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is the most factual statement I\u2019ve ever heard. It only took me 43 years to understand it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suppose you stay to understand someone\u2019s actions once, maybe twice. OK. Everything is worth understanding before you unjustly judge. But when they are clearly not for you or protecting your heart, you are allowing them access to dig deep ditches of pain in your heart that will take years to heal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Furthermore, if you stay, you will compromise things you never thought possible.<\/em><\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You will miss out on the promises of God, and wounds God has already healed will come gaping open again, starting that healing process all over again!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Red flags come in all sizes, disguises, and eye colors!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"679\" src=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth2-1024x1024.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-679\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth2-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth2-980x980.webp 980w, https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth2-480x480.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1024px, 100vw\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"677\" src=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth3-1024x1024.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth3-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth3-980x980.webp 980w, https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth3-480x480.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1024px, 100vw\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"678\" src=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth4-1024x1024.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-678\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth4-1024x1024.webp 1024w, https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth4-980x980.webp 980w, https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth4-480x480.webp 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1024px, 100vw\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">PAY ATTENTION! <\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Love and value yourself so you don\u2019t turn a blind eye. It\u2019s easy to do when filling voids with something other than God. I promise all red flags will come back to bite you in the behind! Don\u2019t let them.<\/p>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column]\n\t\t\t[\/et_pb_row]\n\t\t[\/et_pb_section]","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>PSA:Applicable to men and women\u2026&nbsp; If you have to prove your worth to the opposite sex, they are NOT from God. Don\u2019t walk, RUN AWAY! I never understood the statement, \u201cPeople only hurt you as much as you allow them.\u201d That is the most factual statement I\u2019ve ever heard. It only took me 43 years [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":182,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<!-- wp:heading {\"level\":3} -->\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">PSA:<br>Applicable to men and women\u2026&nbsp;<\/h3>\n<!-- \/wp:heading -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>If you have to prove your worth to the opposite sex, they are NOT from God. Don\u2019t walk, RUN AWAY!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I never understood the statement, <strong>\u201cPeople only hurt you as much as you allow them.\u201d<\/strong> <\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>That is the most factual statement I\u2019ve ever heard. It only took me 43 years to understand it. <\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Suppose you stay to understand someone\u2019s actions once, maybe twice. OK. 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But when they are clearly not for you or protecting your heart, you are allowing them access to dig deep ditches of pain in your heart that will take years to heal.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><strong><em>Furthermore, if you stay, you will compromise things you never thought possible.<\/em><\/strong> <\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>You will miss out on the promises of God, and wounds God has already healed will come gaping open again, starting that healing process all over again!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Red flags come in all sizes, disguises, and eye colors!<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:gallery {\"linkTo\":\"none\"} -->\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped\"><!-- wp:image {\"id\":679,\"sizeSlug\":\"large\",\"linkDestination\":\"none\"} -->\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth2-1024x1024.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-679\"\/><\/figure>\n<!-- \/wp:image -->\n\n<!-- wp:image {\"id\":677,\"sizeSlug\":\"large\",\"linkDestination\":\"none\"} -->\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth3-1024x1024.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-677\"\/><\/figure>\n<!-- \/wp:image -->\n\n<!-- wp:image {\"id\":678,\"sizeSlug\":\"large\",\"linkDestination\":\"none\"} -->\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img src=\"https:\/\/tiffanyshae.com\/shinebright\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/worth4-1024x1024.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-678\"\/><\/figure>\n<!-- \/wp:image --><\/figure>\n<!-- \/wp:gallery -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:heading {\"level\":1} -->\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">PAY ATTENTION! <\/h1>\n<!-- \/wp:heading -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Love and value yourself so you don\u2019t turn a blind eye. 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