Tiffany Shae, founder of Shine Bright. Speak Truth. where Christian Women can find helpful bible study tools and resources, ministry focused business tools

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Moving forward, not on

I’m just a girl standing before a situation, demanding closure.

Most often, I get it. I measure my success to be 99%, but this time, I laid my cards on the table, walked out, and put the situation in God’s hands. I danced in the light for the first week or so, feeling free and totally surrendered.

Once the stages of grief hit though, I’ve been begging God for a way out, to erase the memories and the heartache, but He’s let me sit in the uncomfortable.

Honestly, looking back, I needed to.

It was necessary to feel the gashes in my heart, the gaping hole of emptiness in my soul, the pounding heaviness in my chest, and the panic of never feeling happy again. 

The more I sat in His presence, even in silence, a deeper level of intimacy was being knitted with Him as I propped myself up on the wall in this dark, cold, pit of pain.

The ache in my heart, the undeniable void, the massive hole representing loss slammed into my face every morning when I would wake and weighed heavy over me as I was desperate for rest at night. Moving on is the only thing I wanted and yet the only solution that would break my heart even more.

And when I thought I was going to drown in desperation for God to release me, His voice called out and said, “I’m not done here, you need to trust Me.”

I am embarrassed to admit this, but I felt those were the ugliest and, by far, the worst words I’ve ever heard. 

Don’t judge me; I know I am being dramatic, but I immediately whined, “Why can’t we be done here? 

Haven’t I been through enough?  Don’t you love me?”  

Without hesitation, He whispered deep into my soul, “I’m still working. I need you to move forward, NOT on.”

I didn’t know how to respond to that. I felt that I needed to be done, and even moving forward would require me to have closure. After contemplating God’s request, I realized He was asking me to let Him work behind the scenes while I went about my business, which is ultimately His business.

He desired to take my focus off my problem and my pain and shift it to Him. Once I could focus on Him, the pain lessened, and I could see His goodness all around me, even in the agony of grief. 

So, if you’re in a place today where your situation is painful and there appears to be no progress, and frankly, a good outcome doesn’t seem possible, I want to encourage you. 

God knows what is best for us, and if God asks you to stay there, He’s working. He’s working every detail out, His perfect will for your life and the situation.  The pain will eventually show its purpose, and you will be strengthened and His glory will be magnified. And, as a sweet friend always reminds me when I often forget…

“If the outcome isn’t good yet, God isn’t finished.”

Tiffany Shae, founder of Shine Bright. Speak Truth. where Christian Women can find helpful bible study tools and resources, ministry focused business tools
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Tiffany Shae

01.21.2021

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